We usually get entangled between the two most peculiar terms i.e. happiness and success. People often tend to link these two terms and find them as interdependent to each other. However, the irony of reality is that it is hard to find a person who is both happy and successful.
First of all, let’s get a clear idea of what factually success is. So my dear amigos, after hearing to numerous people about their aim of life, I finally came to a conclusion that success can have distinct definitions among diverse people. Some believe it is notion to be able to earn the green notes. For other dissimilar people, it can be to form a loving family and some loyal friends. A few category of people also regard travelling and exploring the world as success. Certain responsible indivisuals may feel that it refers to being helpful towards the society and proving a contribution to the world on behalf of mankind. Hence, we see that success for different indivisuals can be as selfish as a family, as greedy as money, as naïve as happiness and love and as resposible as welfare of the society. Altogeher, if we look at the term ‘success’ from a general perspective we conclude that- Success is any goal probably tough as catching a butterfly or simple as picking up a stone.
Now, I believe we all know what happiness means…. or maybe not? Well, this word appears to be as simple as a duck, but don’t forget that a simple looking duck keeps on paddling its feet in the water which on looking closely isn’t as simple as it appears to be. Various homo-sapiens exclaim atleast once in a while that “I am happy today!” or probably “I am in a good mood today.” But, what do they actually mean by saying that? Honestly speaking, Happiness is a state of mind or particularly an emotion and we all know that emotion is another category of the world which presently is short of word, but is embraced with a bag full of feels.
Well, now if we examine closely we see that one word means accomplishment of a goal and another is an emotion. So my friend, on relating the two terms we can probably get to keep happiness as a goal/aim which on accomplishment can relate it to success or we can assume that on completing a goal a person feels the joy of success. But, here comes the irony into play. If a person completes a task and has attained success, shouldn’t he be in a state of ebullience. No! Human is not that simple organism who feels contented on just accomplishing one task. After completing one, he wants to complete two more, then three more and the number keeps on increasing the date of his funeral. Human is never satisfied, even if he breaks a star and get it on Earth, he would next be planning to attack the moon, then a planet and going upto an infinitely many items in the never-ending list. This is why I am stating that never ever relate two extreme terms like happiness and success together, as both of them have a separate identity which can cause a disaster together.
At last, Be happy even when you get the smallest reason to be; You are existing and got a chance to be a part of this magical world is your biggest reason or say excuse to be happy! Also, success is a never-ending journey, so celebrate it on climbing each stair of the ladder as you never know how long it will take to reach the next step of the endless ladder. But, just a suggestion, keep climbing this ladder else your existence would be boring or rather pointless!